love yours'

You know that saying, “You don’t know what you have until it’s gone?” That saying needs to go away. Because we need to start appreciating the things we have in front of us, right now. Not when they go away and are long gone and suddenly we’re left with all of these regrets. We need to learn how to be happy with what we have while we have them.

So many relationships end, so many loved ones pass away, and so many people are left regretting their time spent with them. They regret not saying I love you enough, or treating them with as much care as they deserved. And I get that in the moment, it’s not always easy to appreciate what you have. You might be fighting with your significant other and spit horrible words at them. You might spend time with someone you love without really even noticing they’re there because their presence has grown so familiar. You aren’t always consciously aware that this might be the last opportunity you have with them. But we should damn well try to make an effort to appreciate the ones we love while we have them in front of us. There is no worse feeling than having regret with absolutely no way to make up for it.

In many cases you would find yourself comparing some of the things that one of your friend had bought, probably a nice house in the nice suburbs, or a convertible car, which in most cases he worked hard to be able to own them, you on the other hand, you have been  doing nothing at all. That's where the root of jealousy comes. I think it is very important that we learn to control our selves, and be able to acknowledge the hard work of other people, not forgetting to look after them when it comes to achieving what we want. leaning to accept the situation you are in currently, and having faith that it won't stay the same for eternally is what will help drive each day, that's if you are definitely doing something product each day that will help you towards your destination.

let me close in the words of  J Cole as he says, "Love yours, there is no such thing as the life that's better than yours"